A lot of the time I'd get that feeling like I was in the middle of a huge black ocean, or in deep space, but not in the fascinating way. (3.2) “Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close” focuses on a lot of different themes, however one of the most prominent deals with fear brought on by grief and how to overcome or move past your fear, often with the help from people who care about you. Both Oskar, Grandma, Grandpa, and Mom experience fear, especially after and during the tragedy of 9/11. It was a common experience faced by many of the people, especially those who lived in New York City, after facing this act of terrorism. There is an immense feeling of anxiety throughout the novel which is eventually overcome, for Oskar at least, with the help of his loved ones surrounding him. This is a prime example of how Oskar has a large problem with anxious behavior and thoughts, which appear more strongly after the passing of his father. The way he thinks and goes about understanding th...